REMEMBERING
AUNTIE
LENA...
By
Dr Michael Bugeja
I have so many memories of Malta, it's hard to pick a favorite.
Back then I was
studying at the University of Austria and decided to take a quick trip to Malta
via train to Syracuse and then boat to the harbor. I remember showing up
unannounced in Marsa at my Auntie Lena's house. This is a woman who lived with
the rest of my family in the catacombs during World War II, happy to share a
potato. She knew the meaning of hunger. Well, I was hungry after my voyage. I
sat down to pastries and tea and a good salad. Then Auntie Lena brought out a
bowl of rabbit stew from the tiny kitchen in the back of the house on Jesuit
Hill. I ate the stew and felt content, thinking the dinner was over. She
returned to her kitchen and emerged with a heaping dish of burnt lasagne and
ham. I recalled my mother's warning about not turning down food as a guest in a
relative's home. So I ate slowly, leaving a clean plate. My auntie was pleased.
When she took my dish to the kitchen, I assumed that she was cleaning up and
used the opportunity to loosen my belt. Yes. She returned with a dish of fried
eggs and bacon slabs. Auntie Lena was literally cleaning out her cupboard in
gratitude for my visit. But I was becoming whoozy. To top off the bottomless
meal, she had baked bread pudding. This time I protested. But so did she. Nearly
six feet and more than 225 pounds, she towered over me as I ate and tried to
keep down what I ate. When she returned to the kitchen, I got up and said I
would take a walk. "What about the lime Jell-O?" she asked, holding out a
shimmering glass of it in the doorway. This was 1972, and auntie supported
Mintoff, picketing against the British and rallying for independence. "Lime is
for Limeys," I told her. She nodded and let me go for my walk. I treked to
Valetta that afternoon and returned that evening, thinking about auntie and
food. She was trying to show me that Malta had changed, that there would be
abdundance again, that better times were ahead for all of us. She was right.
Michael Bugeja is a poet and writer whose work appears regularly in a
wide range of publications. He is the recipient of several literary and
teaching awards, including a National Endowment for the Arts fellowship
and an AMOCO Foundation Outstanding Teacher award. He teaches ethics and
magazine writing at the prestigious E.W. Scripps School of Journalism and
lives in Athens, Ohio with his wife Diane and two children, Erin Marie and
Shane Michael.
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